Will You Weep for Her?
Will you weep for her as she stands at a crossroads?
Both roads sure to have risks, unknowns, twists…
Will you weep for her as she contemplates trying to carry a secret
A secret soon to come out of hiding as the baggy sweatshirt fails to hide the contours
Of the unborn life blooming in her belly
Crowds flock to weep for this unborn life, but will they weep for her?
Will you weep for her as the story she tells becomes a mountain of shame?
A so-called celebration turned into isolation
She worries, prays joy will replace fear, waits…
Will you weep for her as forced bedrest takes over her livelihood?
As bills pile up and her body rebels
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Will you weep for her as she postpones dreams for dimes?
You can do it all so they say…and a burden she does not wish to be
Will you weep for her as she feigns faint smiles to onlookers?
Wanting desperation to go undetected.
Will you weep for her as shaky supports dwindle?
As the once upon a time prince becomes a coward
Abandonment all too familiar on repeat
And she wonders, can I survive this?
Life, liberty, & the pursuit of happiness blur into murky waters
Will you weep for her as her body stretches overcome with primal pain
Screaming without an anchor as she squeezes the nurses hand
The unborn becomes born
Pressed against her swollen chest
A paradox of joy and fear
Will you weep for her as she struggles through sleepless nights
Help is fleeting and more help breaks the bank
Without a compass, a captain, or crew mates, navigation is daunting
She sings the only lullaby sang once to her by a kind face long gone
How do you build a family when family has never been defined?
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Will you weep for her as she scavenges for discounts
Welcoming kind hearts, but not wanting to be anybody’s charity case
Diapers, formula, doctor’s visits, clothes and more clothes
Faced with questions, dilemmas…
How to support a child without work?
How to support a child with work?
Sometimes she wants to run away from it all.
Sometimes she gets lost in darkness.
Do you weep for her as she grasps for her worth?
In a society failing to treasure the crown of motherhood
Will you weep for the child as he grows
Mother working two jobs to sustain
Never has he known a father
Protective of his mother, hiding his shadows…
She doesn’t need to know
Desperate for belonging, he strays
Will you weep for the child turned into a man
Who found solidarity in the streets
They told him he was one of them
They told him he was strong
He writes his mother from behind steel bars
Will you weep for her?
A mother with the burden of a broken heart
Will my baby boy make it? She cries.
Don’t they remember they wept for him in my belly?
Who weeps for him now?
Who wipes his tears? My tears?
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She falls to her knees each night
Praying to God that her baby be protected
That she might have the strength to carry on
And she does with tired eyes and bones that feel brittle
One. Day. At. A. Time.
Will you weep for her?
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This poem is dedicated to all the mothers and mothers-to-be who know the meaning of struggle and sacrifice as they navigate raising our youth in a society that offers few reassurances and safeguards. Protecting life means showing up for the unborn and already born. Mothers are the backbone of our communities. Honoring them, acknowledging their hardships, and creating policies that allow their worlds to expand rather than become smaller, are essential components to protecting the welfare, health, and livelihoods of current and future generations.
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Written by Audry Van Houweling, Owner & Founder
She soars Psychiatry, LLC www.shesoarspsych.com
Sisters & Silverton, Oregon